Sexual Assault, Violence & Violence Prevention

The Towson University Counseling Center is here to assist students who have experienced sexual violence. We also work hard to educate the university community about sexual violence and violence prevention.

What is Sexual Violence?

Sexual violence is an umbrella term that encompasses many different acts such as relationship violence, sexual assault, sexual exploitation, sexual harassment, sexual intimidation, stalking, and child sexual abuse. See the educational material below to learn more about these terms.

If you or someone you know has experienced sexual violence, you do not have to face the situation alone. Come to us for assistance and support. Call 410-704-2512 to speak with one of our counselors.

Resources

On-Campus

快活视频Counseling Center: 410-704-2512

The Health Center: 410-704-2466

  • Free services for survivors 
  • Emergency contraception, exams, and certain testing and lab work
  • Even if you are unsure whether you want to press charges, the HC can provide care and assistance with your decision making.
  • The Sexual Assault Peer Education (SAPE) Program is a group of students committed to preventing sexual violence at Towson University and beyond. They promote consent, empower active bystanders, teach healthy communication, and support survivors by educating our peers and ourselves.
  • The Sexual Health Awareness Group (SHAG) is a group of students who provide non-judgmental, inclusive sexuality education to the campus community. They are a volunteer group who share the common interest in eradicating sex-related stigma, promoting body autonomy, and good consensual sex for those who want it.

SOS: 410-704-4462 or submit a online

  • If you are concerned about the well-being of a 快活视频community member
  • If you or another student needs support in connecting with on or off campus resources 
Towson University Police Department (TUPD): 410-704-4444

Title IX Coordinator: 410-704-0203

  • Individuals who have experienced sexual violence may request a change of on-campus living, class schedule or other accommodations related to sexual violence.
  • Contact Towson鈥檚 Title IX Coordinator to discuss accommodations

sexual violence by submitting an online report to the Office of Inclusion & Institutional Equity

Safewalk: 410-704-7233 (SAFE)

  • Provides uniformed police aides and police officers to escort individuals of the campus community walking on campus alone 24 hours a day

Saferide

  • On-call service currently being provided from 11:00 p.m. to 7:00 a.m. daily.  Pick-up & drop off service is available to all areas on the campus and University Village that are accessible with a vehicle.

Center for Student Diversity provides academic, social, and transition support for underserved students and promotes exchanges and dialogue between individuals of diverse backgrounds and identities.

Off-Campus Resources

You can seek care at any local hospital even if you think you don鈥檛 want to press charges.

Both GBMC and Mercy hospitals perform SAFE. If you think you may want to press charges, you may want to receive a SAFE exam to preserve evidence. The exam must be completed as soon as possible after the assault (typically within 120 hours).


443-849-3323
6701 N. Charles St. Towson, MD 21204

 

410-332-9499
345 St Paul Pl, Baltimore, MD 21202

 
Provides counseling and support services to those impacted by human trafficking, sexual and intimate partner violence.  Offers individual and group trauma therapy, advocacy and resources, community engagement and training, abuser intervention programs, crisis response services, and legal referral coordination.
24-hour Crisis Helpline: 443-270-0379
Crisis Text Line: 410-498-5956
Towson: 410-377-8111
Baltimore: 410-837-7000 


The nation鈥檚 largest anti-sexual violence organization. Talk to a trained staff member from your local sexual assault service provider.
1-800-656-HOPE (4673) | online with a trained staff member who can provide you confidential crisis support.


Works to help prevent sexual assault, advocate for accessible, compassionate care for survivors of sexual violence, and work to hold offenders accountable. They provide helpful information regarding what to do after an experience of sexual violence, offer rape crisis center locators, and make many other resources available. 
1-800-893-RAPE (7273)


Provides comprehensive legal services to survivors of sexual violence statewide, as well as training and technical assistance for professionals working with survivors. 
301-565-2277 

 
Provides 24/7 service available to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 
(800) 273-TALK (8255) |  


Helps individuals who have experienced relationship violence to find support and assistance
1-800-799-SAFE (7233) | | Text 鈥淪TART鈥� to 88788
 


Offer a 24 hour hotline, client service coordinators, emergency shelter, legal clinic services, individual and group counseling, and abuse intervention 
410-889-RUTH (7884) |  


Does not provide direct services; however, they offer several other resources to support efforts to change conditions that lead to domestic violence (e.g., patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism). 

 
Operates the U.S. National Human Trafficking Hotline and offer many resources
1-888-373-7888 | Text: HELP to BeFree (233733) |  


Work to defend and expand the rights of all immigrants and refugees
1-510-465-1984


National network that works attends to the immediate needs of those experiencing homelessness while protecting their civil rights
1-202-737-6444


Educate young people about healthy and unhealthy relationships

Educational Resources

An all-encompassing (non-legal) term that refers to many different acts including those listed below:

  • Sexual Assault: Any nonconsensual sexual contact, including but not limited to nonconsensual vaginal, anal, or oral penetration
  • Relationship Violence: Verbal, emotional, financial, psychological, or sexual abuse of a current or former intimate partner
  • Sexual Exploitation: Nonconsensual or abusive sexual behavior for one鈥檚 own benefit or the benefit of another; including recording or distributing sexual photographs or videos without consent
  • Sexual Harassment: Unwelcome verbal or physical sexual advances that interfere with work or school
  • Sexual Intimidation: Verbal threats of sexual violence; indecent exposure or flashing
  • Stalking: Actions that would cause someone to fear for their safety, including following, surveilling, or threatening a person or their property
  • Child Sexual Abuse: Children cannot consent to any form of sexual activity thus any sexual activity with an individual under age 18 is sexual abuse. This is not limited to physical contact such as vaginal, oral, or anal intercourse. It includes acts such as exposing oneself or masturbating in the presence of a minor, obscene phone calls, text messages, or digital interactions, producing, owning, or sharing pornographic images or videos of children, and any other sexual conduct that is harmful to a child's wellbeing. 

Consent is voluntary, affirmative, and active agreement to a sexual activity. Sexual activity WITHOUT consent is sexual violence. Consent is:

  • Active: Consent must be mutually understood affirmative words or actions, it can NOT be implied through silence or previous sexual or dating history.
  • Coherent: If someone is incapacitated from alcohol or drugs, asleep, or otherwise mentally impaired, they are not able to consent to sexual activity.
  • Ongoing: Voluntary and affirmative agreement is necessary for every sexual activity, every time. Past consent does not apply to present or future acts, and consent can be withdrawn at any time.
  • Willing: Consent must be given freely, it can NOT be granted under psychological, emotional, or physical force, manipulation, persuasion, or threats.

When we encounter threatening situations, our bodies and minds are designed to respond quickly and automatically to survive. Given that we are social beings, this can include complex social situations such as the risk of damaging our relationships through conflict. Some common responses include:

  • Freeze: Become incapable of moving, thinking, or making a choice
  • Fawn: People-pleasing to diffuse conflict and reestablish a sense of safety. Typically, this involves ignoring one鈥檚 own desires or needs and appeasing the other person to avoid conflict.
  • Flight: Getting away from the situation
  • Fight: Becoming aggressive verbally or physically 
  • Denial
  • Numbing
  • Irritability
  • Loss of Interest
  • Feelings of hopelessness
  • Low mood, depression
  • Decreased concentration
  • Academic decline 
  • Nightmares
  • Intrusive memories, flashbacks
  • Increased startle response
  • Hypervigilance
  • Shame, self-blame, self-hatred
  • Emotional overwhelm, Panic attacks
  • Self-destructive behaviors
  • Limited or no memories of the event
  • Dissociation
  • Social and/or romantic difficulties 
  • Changes in sleep, insomnia 
  • Changes in eating, eating disorders
  • Chronic pain, headaches
  • Overusing substances

In Order to Address Common Misconceptions, It鈥檚 Important to Know:

  • Not 鈥渇ighting鈥� back or 鈥渇leeing鈥� the situation does not mean that you wanted the incident to occur.
  • Physiological arousal responses such as lubrication, erection, or orgasm are not indicators of consent and does not mean that the person wanted the sexual activity to occur. These are automatic bodily reactions, not conscious choices.
  • Each person鈥檚 response to sexual violence is unique and, while many individuals share common reactions, this can look different for everyone, and may change over time. Just because a person does not feel or look distressed in the moment, does not mean that they did not experience sexual violence or that it was 鈥渘ot that bad.鈥�
  • Individuals who have experienced sexual violence sometimes blame themselves for certain aspects of what happened. You were NOT 鈥渁sking for it鈥� or responsible for sexual violence no matter the circumstances leading to this event. For example, you are not to blame even if you were intoxicated, wearing a revealing outfit, went to someone鈥檚 room, or were okay with some sexual activity but not everything that happened.
  • Sexual violence does not just happen to female identified individuals. This is an experience that can happen to individuals of all gender identities.
  • False reports of sexual violence are extremely rare. It鈥檚 important to support individuals who share that they have experienced sexual violence and to let them know that they are believed.
  • Most instances of sexual violence occur between individuals who know each other.

How Can We Support Others After They Experience Sexual Violence?

Use active listening skills such as:

  • Body: open and relaxed posture, comfortable gaze
  • Voice: calm tone, volume, and cadence
  • Express: genuine warmth and compassion 
  • Don't make assumptions as to what others need. Ask them.
  • Invite them to do what they perceive as necessary to feel as safe as possible (e.g., going for a walk, having time alone, getting support together)

It can be difficult to know what to say. Recognize that we may make mistakes and invite others to give us feedback about our interaction.

Validate the Individuals emotions:

  • 鈥淚t鈥檚 understandable that you feel that way given what happened.鈥�
  • 鈥淥thers would feel that way too if that happened to them.鈥�

Express empathy:

  • Acknowledge that the experience has affected their life.
    • 鈥淚鈥檓 sorry this happened.鈥�
    • 鈥淭hat is such a difficult experience鈥�

Show support:

  • If you feel comfortable doing so, let the survivor know that you are there for them and open to listening.
    • 鈥淚 appreciate you sharing this with me.鈥�
    • 鈥淚 care about you and am here to listen or help in any way I can.鈥�
    • 鈥淵ou are not alone.鈥�
  • Support them in getting connected with others who can help by:
    • Asking if there are people in their life, they feel comfortable going to
    • Reminding them that there are service providers who will be able to support them as they heal from the experience.

Express your belief in their experience:

  • It can be difficult for survivors to come forward and share their experience. They may feel ashamed, concerned that they won鈥檛 be believed, or worried they鈥檒l be blamed. You could say:
    • 鈥淚t took a lot of courage to tell me about this.鈥�
    • 鈥淚 believe you.鈥� 

Address possible self-blame:

  • Survivors may blame themselves. Remind them that they are not to blame
    • "It鈥檚 not your fault.鈥�
    • 鈥淵ou didn鈥檛 do anything to deserve this.鈥�


Avoid expressing negative judgments:

  • Try not to ask any 鈥渨hy鈥� questions about the survivor鈥檚 behavior.
  • Everyone responds to traumatic events differently. Be careful not to interpret calmness as a sign that the event did not occur.
  • There is no 鈥渞ight鈥� amount of time to heal. Try not to say phrases that suggest they鈥檙e taking too long to recover, such as:
    • 鈥淵ou鈥檝e been acting like this for a while now.鈥�

Check in sometimes:

  • The event may have happened a while ago, but that doesn鈥檛 mean the pain is gone.
  • Check in with the survivor to remind them you still care about their well-being and believe their experience.

Being a strong support doesn鈥檛 mean you should attempt to manage someone else鈥檚 experience of sexual violence on your own. See our list of resources above to get connected to more support.